yes, they exsist... ...there are even some that will have sex with you for a small donation to their collage degree fund, if you want it really casual

Yes, we exist!

why no pic?

It certainly exists. However, a lot of us hold out for something better, because we can. I'm sure you're a fine guy, and all that, but "I'd rather not make any effort" is just not a very good come-on line for me. The place to post for casual encounters would be in, well, the casual encounters section. This is actually a discussion forum for kinky sex, and I think kinky sex is less likely in nsa encounters because there hasn't been any chance to build up trust. Again, not that it couldn't ever happen, it's just less likely.

Seriously XD Sex without a relationship is fine for me, but I don't want NSA... I want to at least be friends with the person. I already have an SO, so I am not looking for another lovey relationship... but I don't just want random sex either. More like FWB.

Indeed. If I'm going to be alone, I'll just masturbate. Don't need to be alone with another person. A friend said once that he was "well beyond sport-fucking." I thought that was a nice way to put it.

Yeah. Thinking about it, it just doesn't arouse me... The most arousing part of sex for me is the mental arousal which is there because of whatever connection I have with the person I am fucking. I think I need that, or it's just boring for me. I can't even get into sex with my SO if I am 'just not in the mood' for whatever reason... on the rare occasion that happens :P The 'mood' to me is so important. Without it, I just think I'd be like "GIVE ME MY PUSSY BACK. YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG! I'll take it from here, thanks..."

it's funny, you know, because a lot of guys post here for nsa. I mean, we see that again and again and again and again. But whenever a guy actually gets me to consent to sharing my anonymous email with him, what are the things he wants most? Number x, to know my real first name. Number x, to see a photo of my face. Could it be that guys crave some kind of connection as well? Just a thought.... ;)

Not sure about GUYS in general But I have to have that mental/emotional connection. Its a desire to please her that drives me

Without a doubt they do, or most do I once read it as "women want closeness to grow into sex, men want sex to grow closeness" Of course there are individual differences, but that seems to hold true.

Interesting... I'll have to think about that!

Wow! I had never thought of it like that... They do always ask that ... >_> Even when they are asking about NSA or just cyber/camming... they always want to see my face and ask my name. You observant lady, you!

See, I wonder if it isn't just fear of rejection or something. I mean, it's possible, at least theoretiy, that men have that too, right? So if they start out asking for nsa, they have nothing to lose. To me, of course, it sounds like they have nothing to offer, so I'd never go for it. Or maybe they're just lazy asses, I dunno. I could be overthinking. I do that sometimes.

Most men even confident ones such as me, as they get older, do have a fear of rejection. Not so much an ego thing, more of a lifes short times wasting

Now you have me wondering... But that could totally be it... if they start out for NSA, they feel like they can pull of the "I'm a tough guy, I don't need lovey dovey" and get a piece without being worried about rejection.... interesting!

I wouldnt say that. There are alot of shyt head men out there that would much rather just fuck like animals rather than deal with feelings and emotions. For some of us, it takes the feelings and emotions to stir the intimate feelings, thus causing want/desire. Now I will tell a woman she is sexy/pretty/hot etc. And comment in certain ways. But that doesnt mean I wanna jump her bones. It actually takes a special woman to spawn that desire from me, And it doesnt happen from a pic of her. Takes getting to know HER, and I would hope that I am pretty blunt and obvious enough that she knows when she has opened that part of me.

i know about casual encounters and i have posted something there before, and i know this is a kinky sex forum, just thought would be the most appropriate place to start a discussion on the subject. without a doubt would always like replies with potential futures but mainly just interested in what people have to say. thanks for your reply

yes it does and yes there is one but she's REALLY busy!

NSA doesnt really fit here Being that this is a kink forum and most of us are INTO strings attached (bondage)

NSA Bondage Is that an oxymoron? or just a contradiction in terms

lol contradition of terms i would say

Yes, no relationshits for me.

Yeap they do exist... Ive had a couple of NSA relationships (if that makes any sense). However, it takes A LOT of work to find one! And you have to keep in mind it is far risker for a woman to just take some random guy home. So, if you appear to be sane, repectful, and safe it will increase your chances greatly. Just my experience, your may be different...

NSA or friends with bennifits exist however, it is a hard thing to find and hold on too.night stands arething, but only slightly more fun the wanking off. Friends with bennies are normally the easiest to find with an ex. Because you were or are actually friends and you know it won't work dating - been there done that. After ex's - it's left to best friends, but that gets weird when you find out the girl you knew since you were x - that you have hung out with forever, is actually sporting a crush on you. Not just willing to getoff with you since you're both in need. Good luck - it's hard to find.

No shit....but I keep looking

i'd love to find her......

whats that ed again

but be a big boy Yes there are women who'll casually hook up. But the only time I answered acasual encounters ad the guy said he felt "used" afterwards. He ragged on me a little and I had to remind myself "Hey I don't have to put up with this" so I walked out.

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