katynova
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2015-09-11 14-00-11
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First and foremost get off the women wants cybersex chat . Everyone that I've known that got on women wants cybersex chat rooms got worse. The problem is that the women wants date a cougar tonight can't fix your heart, only you can do that. I was married x yrs andday he said he wanted a divorce and nothing that I said would change his mind. Said no to counseling. Like you I wanted my marriage, I enjoyed being married. After he left I found out (x mon later) that he had gf and she moved into his new place the same day he moved in. And he had a party and invited all of our mutual friends to parade his loser, overweight, lazy, unmotivated, drama queen around like he won a prize. Talk about feeling low and then finding out all of this after the fact. I felt lower. There were times that I felt that if I didn't wake up the next day, I wouldn't care. I havefriends who were awesome with me. They ed, made me talk about the situation, listened while I cried and cried. I cried until I had no more tears to cry. I started reading self help books on getting dumped, self esteem books, ego boosting books. I started volunteering more than normal. I met some great friends and it made me feel great doing something good for someone who was feeling lower than me. I began dance classes (which were free), met some new friends, took a couple of trips for myself. Got to get back to yourself before you're good for anyone else. It hurts, I know it, but you have to begin somewhere. Begin by making small goals for yourself and complete them. Give yourself something to look forward to other than him. Time will help but even after x yrs I get depressed at times being without him (my buds here can attest to). Keep venting here and we'll all listen and try to help
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