how to tie romance to kink I have been given a hint, on in order for the kink to start, I need to increase the "romance". Who has a tip or x?

tell her hints don't work in a kink relationship, you have to talk like adults try doing more chores, buy her flowers,leave her love notes but if you're doing it only to get something out of it, it may back fire

I agree with TC on this one, kink is a type of relationship and in any relationship there is always room for a little love and romance but my feeling is that where kink is involved * its the small things that matter* talk to her do little things to suprise her.

Ohh I do t-c I buy flowers ALL the time, send her e cards, and have expressed my wants-needs-desires too from here in any form. i offer body rubs and wine by the beach etc. She seems to have a feeling that once the kink starts that is all I would want. But not the case, I just want ot improve the pleasure for both. Not to mention, young baby and busy lives seem to "slow" things down.

ok here ya go, Im a mother of x small and Ican tell you right now that if she is feeling overwhelmed by the regular goings on day to day that will have somehing to do with it. Is it always kink when u have sex ( in some form or another) or do you enjoy each other at times in a vanilla way in the bedroom as well. perhaps she needs an "all about me day"

we are pretty vanilla. On a rare occasion some very very mild kink takes place. And I am all about her taking an all about me days.

hmmm talk to her then ask what you can do.. What it is she wants..

you need to reassure her and talk about the positives all the time yes the baby makes a difference, so create a "your time" good luck

^exactly!^ Schedule, schedule, schedule!! I don't know how any of my friends even get sex, they let their stay up so late. Mine are down at x, that gives me a good hours of "mommy-daddy time". Get a schedule set up, and yes, you can get a baby on a schedule. Every day should have time for you and the wife, a together time and an alone time for the both of you.

baby is scheduled So I guess it is us that need to turn off the tube and get "romantic" Put the talk to play, huh

amen brother. Yes, exactly. Hey, you just got the biggest hurdle out of the way (scheduling baby). Right on!

praise be to the MOMMA Now just to get her "trained" to be a little kinkster. LOL She is a confidant fairly dominate woman outside of the bedroom, and very submissive in. What do you think of that?

That is me. lol And it's actually pretty common for some submissives.

why? She used to be aggressive in the sack, but that stopped even before baby

Peopl start to discover themselves, we evolve, hun. Also, after that huge addition of responsibility, she is in need of complete attention and love, because during the day she is like super mom. Know what I mean? Being submissive in the bedroom now is her balance. We all need to get back into balance.

OIC, thanks

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